One of the most common responses I get when people learn that I’m bisexual is, “You don’t look bisexual.” To which I always respond, “Well, I don’t wear a huge sign on my head that says, ‘Hi, I’m bisexual.'” Because in addition to being bisexual, I am also a huge smartass.
Because it’s Pride Month initially I wanted to center my outfits around it. I was looking for ways to incorporate my LGBTQ+ pride in any way I that I could. Then I laughed. Doesn’t all of the content I create in some way relate to me being a bisexual? While there is certainly a lot more to me than just my sexuality, it’s also important to acknowledge that my sexuality is very much apart of me and who I am. One of the main reasons I started blogging in the first place was because I didn’t see any plus size Queer women of Color being represented in the world of fashion bloggers and so I created a space for myself.
The reality is a bisexual person does not look like any one thing and I am just one example of what a bisexual person looks like. In today’s outfit I’m wearing this lovely embroidered tie-front swing dress that I picked up during Old Navy’s Super Cash sale. This dress is perfect for the hot California weather because it’s light and effortless. I paired it with these beautiful cognac wedges that wrap around the ankle. I have been on the hunt for a pair of shoes that wrapped around the ankles and I was so happy when I came across these beauties. They were such a steal too for only $17.99! Happy Pride, ya’ll.
Alexis Renae Griggs